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    Hello! Welcome to my online journal of photos, stories and fascinating things . I'm a Pennsylvania wedding photographer who adores books, hazelnut mochas and all the quirky aspects of small-town life. Enjoy your time here and I'd love to read your comments. ;)

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    Naomi Elle

Enjoying Ordinary Things

Stop.

Take a breath.

Make a conscious decision to enjoy.

Enjoy every single mundane, yet delightfully ordinary moment.

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Every season of life slips away so quickly. From rising to adulthood to singleness to newlyweddedness to babies to mothering teenagers to sending the adult children off to the golden years of retirement, life is gone quick as the breath of air in our lungs. You can’t slow down time, but you can focus on being present. One of my favorite quotes has to do with this very subject. Jim Elliot, a young man who died on the mission field nearly 60 years ago, said, “Wherever you are, be all there! Live to the hilt every situation you believe to be the will of God.”

Every day is a gift; every moment is special. My personality is particularly prone to setting goals and always pressing forward. Always looking ahead, moving onward, going to the next thing and getting things done. However, life is meant to be lived and enjoyed and savored. Our lives may seem ordinary to others. That’s okay. Whoever said that ordinary was bad?

Today may be an average day. I will enjoy it. Tomorrow may be mundane as ever. I will enjoy it. The next day may hold no surprises. I will enjoy it. Next week may be perfectly planned to the minute; full of work and sleep and many small tasks in between, but I will enjoy it.

What am I enjoying lately?

  • Companionable silence while sipping coffee as my husband and I commute to work together every morning.
  • The inward smile when I see one pig-tailed niece doing quiet playtime with a tiny stable and no less than ten plastic horses. She sings tuneful songs that sounds like “neeeeigh! neeeeigh-ayyy-ah!” Cuteness personified.
  • The moment I sink my hands into warm sudsy water to clean those few pans that won’t quite fit into the dishwasher.
  • When the Caspian-the-kitty lays his furry feline chin on my arm as I’m reading in bed. In five minutes, he’ll get tired of it and start play-biting my arm but in the meantime, I’ll like his soft snuggly-ness.
  • Seeing people enjoy gifts that I’ve given them. Like a different niece with her ‘pink ring’ and Brandon with his homemade crocheted scarf. It was a Christmas gift a few weeks late. Yes, I really did crochet it and he really does love it (and it looks good on that handsome man!).2013-01-31_0006.jpg
  • When I realize that I have time to spare and I forgot my Bible at home… but there is a wonderful invention called an iPhone, with a Bible app.
  • When one pile of papers leaves my desk and go to somebody else’s desk. Yes, work can be enjoyable! Even paperwork!
  • Chocolate chips. Not in cookies. Just the chocolate chips.
  • When Brandon breaks out his chemistry book to tell me how to cure heartburn… while curing my heartburn. I blame the chocolate chips.
  • Snowflakes falling on the ground, my face and the world around me. Now that my life doesn’t involve “removing snow” (family snow removal business), I am free to alternately rejoice in the beauty of snow or bemoan its existence.2013-01-31_0001.jpg
  • The luxurious feeling of having my hair washed by someone else. It happens once every three months when my hair gets a trim and I truly enjoy it every. single. time.
  • Throwing pillows onto a newly made bed.
  • When I wake up and see that my air-dried hair got an extra dose of wavyness during the nighttime. After I repair the crazy hairs, things look good!
  • Getting paid and subsequently paying off debt. The more exciting end result is our tradition of eating ice cream whenever we pay off a debt. Talk about motivation.2013-01-31_0002.jpg
  • Conversations with friends that leave me smiling and all warm-and-fuzzy inside. It might’ve been the warm liquids, but I’m holding onto the idea of conversation warming the soul.
  • Painting my fingernails just before driving 30 minutes so they don’t get smudged.
  • Those old hymns that echo in my heart over and over and over. “‘Tis so sweet to trust in Jesus…” 
  • Winter. Nothing like a good cold snap to make you appreciate a warm coat and the promise of springtime more. Winter is just a season, though, so I am determined to love it for its three month reign in Pennsylvania.
  • Being perched in my normal study-night spot on the bed, while looking up to see my husband studying intently at his desk. Studying what? Not really sure but it sounds complicated. Engineering and chemistry and geosciences and mathematical equations that make my head spin. Munching on late-night study snacks together (we try to keep it healthy most of the time). Being together, even if it’s being together for studying, is a privilege that I truly enjoy.2013-01-31_0005.jpg

What are you enjoying lately?

 

 

Courthouse Common | Carlisle, PA

 

The Great Coffee Adventure: Just a wedding photographer + her coffee-enthusiast husband on an adventure through Pennsylvania; discovering, photographing and otherwise enjoying the unique, independently-owned coffeeshops and cafes of our great state. Coffee makes us happy.

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Everything significant in our lives seems to be associated with coffee and frigid January days. Two years ago, I planned a little wedding-location-scouting day trip to Carlisle, PA (for this beautiful winter wedding!). I spent the morning wandering about the town with freezing-cold toes and nervous energy that didn’t dissipate until I found a random music store and played my heart out on the piano. Why was I nervous about wedding location scouting? I wasn’t. I like new places and I love weddings, but there happened to be a certain gentleman driving up from Virginia to spend a little time with me. This wasn’t a date (really!); this was a “friendly get-together.” I was excited and apprehensive and could hardly keep still. After my wedding duties were over, I warmed those frigid toes by the fireplace of this coffee shop. I waited in anxious anticipation, jumping at every sound of the door opening. My future husband walked through the door at 2:33 in the afternoon and we experienced Courthouse Common for the first time together.

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The atmosphere is warm and welcoming. With sponged bronze walls and leather furniture the color of dark-roasted coffee beans, it’s a little bit comfortable and a little bit stodgy. Like if a judge had a coffee-shop in his chambers and invited you to have a cup o’ joe with him instead of denying your motions and suppressing evidence (everything I know about court, I learned from Law & Order). The location sits in the dead center of Carlisle, just beside the courthouse. There’s little flavors of courthouse drama that manifest on the menu. I do like a good theme done with a light touch.

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O coffee, how I love you.

This place roasts beans “in house,” and yet the place isn’t overwhelmed by the aroma of burnt beans (which usually means that somebody knows what they’re doing!). Can I get a witness? (bad church/court pun. Intended and yet still funny enough to smirk about). We began visiting this place two years ago, and visited many times during our dating days (Carlisle happens to be a good half-way point between my hometown of Bellefonte, PA and Brandon’s hometown of Sterling, VA). We stopped by many a time, but this happened before I began to appreciate brewed coffee like the connoisseur I have become (slightly tongue-in-cheek. Also another pun. I’m so punny). At that point in time, I was stuck in the syrupy-slap-you-in-the-face-with-sugar mocha drinks.

My personal recommendation: The Roca Mocha. Oh, the chocolatey espresso with almond swirled in. You will be struck with sweetness, but life will be better.

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When we finally re-visited Courthouse Common in early January of this year, I was feeling British. Yes, I wanted some hot tea. This little espresso bar really brings out the options when it comes to tea. I deliberated and hemmed and hawed and looked at the options. Loose leaf or bagged? Herbal or black? Whatever your tea preferences dictate, this place has got ya covered.

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Are you hungry? You should go here. Daily soups and deli sandwiches, piping-hot paninis, freshly-baked scones and cookies.

My recommendation (because I might have had this multiple times): Courthouse Common Panini. It’s the panini with a hint of Cuban flavor to spice up your life. Ham, grilled chicken, bacon, Swiss cheese and honey mustard. With a side of savory chips. YUMYUMYUM.

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Courthouse Common is a community spot, hosting jam sessions and playing welcome to whatever Dickinson School of Law & Carlisle College students make their way to the doors. The whipping winds of Pennsylvania winter don’t seem quite as evil and depressing when you step in the doors of this coffee shop and sink into a leather sofa with hot coffee in your hands. It’s a perfect casual date spot (in my opinion and I’m thinkin’, also in the opinion of the little elderly couple sharing lunch two tables over from us, and the early-twenties we’re-comfortable-but-not-quite-dating-forever-comfortable couple on the other side of the shop). It’s the family spot, as I’m sure the mom and teenage son stopping in would agree. It’s the solitary place to read your newspaper or your newest novel on a Saturday afternoon. It’s the right place to get warm in the winter, find cool drinks in the summer and do some light people-watching any time of the year.

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Oh yes, and it’s a wonderful place for friendly-get-togethers (that aren’t really “dates,” but actually are) that turn into ‘‘Til death do us part.” I don’t know if this was the first love story that began in Courthouse Common, but it’s certainly the best (since it’s ours).

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You should visit this place. I can’t guarantee a husband, but I can guarantee good food and great coffee.

Courthouse Common
1 Hanover Street
Carlisle, PA
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Karen Rhody - January 31, 2013 - 1:06 am

Great Blog! Loved reading this! Thank you so much for sharing I am envious of you guys! Would love to travel around and do the same thing!

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